Ladies?

Dearest all my ladies friends.. all of us cannot be all the time be there for each other, but this is for you….when i’m not there for you…

Heroic Stupidity

On 13th May 2008- 720pm:

I don’t know how many of you will have thought of a time that you had acted as a hero and found yourself suffering. Well, i’m talking about my 2^nd dental appointment when…

Doc: Do you want to have the thicker braces or will you be still better with the thinner one?

Me: Thick one ok…
Doc: Are you sure?
Me: Yah!
***Doctor getting ready***I comfortably got on the seat***
Doc: You sure?
Me: I want my teeth to be nice fast..
Doc: Ok. Do keep panadols (pain killers) with you.
***thinking to myself- he is kidding right?***
So… doctor fixing my teeth…
Doc: Remember to keep panadol with you. When it hurts take some ice cream. It helps to soothe your teeth

****oh no….he is not kidding…….****

Doc: Ok, done! Try bite…How do you feel?
Me: *bite* I feel good!
Doc: Good? Good… have your panadols ya…

The moment i stood up from the chair.. the side of my head hurts! Guess what did I do next….
*stopped at a Sundry shop to get panadol… *roll eyes*

Lesson to learn: Hokkien saying: don’t act smart!

Reminder of my Passion

something to remind me the change and evolveness of dance…. I’m reading this book called who move my cheese…. blog soon…

Looking forward for working adult retreat (no longer campus/students camp ) but i’m so in faith what God will be working and refreshing me this weekend in A FAMOSA, MELAKA!

Single and Loving it!

When my parents were around last weekend, I slept in the guest room while they slept in mine. I randomly picked up this book by kate mcveigh- Single and Loving it! Living life to the fullest. It was really easy reading and guess what? I finished it! Ahaha…

Most relationship books (specially for singles) would often talk about a few general things:

• Don’t settle for second best
• God will provide the best
• Keeping yourself pure before marriage
• Single-hood is not lonely

I like best about this book is when the writer writes about preparation time is never wasted time…

We need to prepare and become like the person we’re believing for. “If you are 10 pounds overweight, you can’t say you don’t want someone who’s even one pound overweight. In other words, if you want someone who is toned and gorgeous, then YOU need to work at becoming more like that. If you want someone who is good with money, YOU need to become a person who is good with money…”

· Spiritual Side preparation- besides prayer, bible studies and attending church (spiritually growing)

· Natural Side Preparation- prepare yourself physically. Look your best, Set some goals. Whether you like it or not, physical attraction is always first impressions.

· Prepare yourself domestically- When you get married, you’re going to have to live with someone. So start preparing now to be someone whom a person would want to live with.

· Prepare yourself financially- If you want to marry someone who is debt-free, then start working on being debt free yourself.

· Prepare yourself socially- Ladies, allow men to be gentlemen. Men, learn how to be a gentleman. Respect

Few things I remember about this book…

• · Am i called to be single? – If you want to be married, then you’re not one of those called to be single. “delight yourself also in the Lord; and He shall give you the desire of your heart”- Psalm 37:4

• · Sometimes people wants to remain single out of fear and not because God is leading them to be single.

• · To be financially secure…Genesis 2:15, Genesis 2:21, 22 says that God gave Adam the job first, and He gave him a wife. Job first, wife second. (To my still studying friends, keep this in mind! Hahaha.. )

• · Don’t think you can change someone after you get married specially important decisions (to have kids or not, someone who believes your vision…etc)

Other readings on love and relationship here….

Updates

Been awhile since i last blogged.. well, truth is i don’t know where to start! Been quite a bit of things happening for the last few weeks that i enjoyed…I’ll try to put everything in pictorial or short descriptions.

I’m blessed and encouraged by the sharing of this DAVAO team missionaries (dancers) on how their dance school have been an evangelistic ground to spread the gospel and i’m so inspired by these 3 lives that was changed when they encounter God from the dance school.

For 3 weeks, and 16 months to go…. I will have to look like this when I go for my dental visits….

Yup… Got Braces…

• Celebrated few birthdays…It’s awesome being able to be a part of your friends journey of discovering their purpose.
• Had a random outing with 1am dancers until 130am. It was unusual…
• Went to karaoke with my colleagues till 4am… that’s unusual too…
• Campus Weekend- Having each campus to be represented to be on fire and CARE for their generation for God to work in their campuses is awesome.
• Met up with one of my best friend when i was 7, in Miri- St Joseph school. Haven’t seen her in 14 years!! Amazing isn’t it? it was really cool… talked till forgotten to take a picture. No, we couldn’t recognise each other. Jamie… u found me!!
• Through Jamie, found other mates from Miri.
• Decided to go for Project Dance in Hong Kong in July.
• Attended Albert and Serina’s wedding dinner. It was so beautiful…. Congratulations!
• Trying to master a Krump move… my arms hurts so much!
• I got a gift from a friend from Kuching…Socks… YAY! came at the right time.. and a jar of yummy stuff, home/hand made. Thanks Van!
• Brought my parents for breakfast this morning for Mothers Day- parents were here this weekend.
• For friends who run low in fuel when you are in KL and stuck in the jam. I have 2 advices…1. Pray Hard (good thing i have a pastor in my car) 2. There is a CALTEX next to Ritz Carlton…
• Spilled my Chocolate Chip Ice Blended on the carpet of Starbucks and the amazing Starbucks did up a brand new one for me on the house. Talking bout the “Starbucks Experience”.
• Looking forward for a working adult retreat at A’Famosa this coming weekend to be refresh and refilled with faith..

Signing off from Starbucks…